Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Dedicated to my People and People Around me.


Sometimes, I just start wondering when ever alone, that till now in my life with how many people have I met. Some people just passed by and some people stayed for long with me.
But still, I am unable to recall the names of some people who stayed for long with me, and I can't even remember their faces. But there are some people which I still remember so well that it seems as if we have met yesterday. They are the people who left an impression of their own in my personality and I will carry their impression where ever I go. No matter how old I get, these are the people who will live inside my heart till I am living.

 Humans do not die when they leave this world and they keep on living in the personalities, hearts and thoughts of the people who carry their impression inside them. A person dies in true sense when they are forgotten. Like famous scientists, some died hundreds and thousands of years ago but they are still living in this world by the work they left behind, they are living in the books which we study today. So the people, who I remember, will keep on living in my thoughts till I am living.
Some people say that a person's family is the most important thing in one’s life, no doubt it is and family leaves the strongest image on a person, but still, every person have its own importance in the lives of people who are living around them. Like our relatives, friends, class fellows, teachers, neighbors and many other people, each of them play their role in our life, some play good role, some play bad role, both of them does leave an impression in our personalities and the way we think, and most of the time we remember the bad characters and forget the good characters. In my view it’s a bit unjust with the people who have contributed in a good way in our lives and we should remember them where ever we go. 

A person simply cannot live alone in this world, a person cannot say that he or she is capable of living totally alone in this world. We have to rely on different people in this world. One simply cannot bear the burden of everything by himself or herself. Those who try to bear the burdens all alone, simply break down and they fail in whatever they are doing. Before, due to some circumstances I became a strong advocate of the idea that a person should live his life alone, without relying on anyone, it was not that I was paranoid or something, the reason was that it’s simply very difficult to find people on whom you can rely on these days. In my view, that person is very lucky who come across such good people during their life who are trustworthy enough to be relied on.

Now, when I look back at my life, I consider myself very lucky and before I was just being unthankful when I was remembering the bad characters in my life, more than the good ones. Though it’s human nature to remember bad things more than the good ones, and there are more bad people around than the good ones, but I have seen and felt that one good person in life is enough to counteract the effect of one hundred bad people around you. And I am lucky enough to have more than one good people around me beside my family on whom I can rely on. They know who they are, I still remember them in my prayers no matter they are around me or not and I hope they would also be remembering me in their prayers.
 

8 comments:

  1. Ameen! may God bless us all with all the happiness of life and always guide us to the path of righteousness and help us make good, helpful and sincere friends.
    BTW the mid one seems to be photoshopped lol and pretty sentimental post, loved it... :)

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  2. Pic is not shopped, in f9 park, camera focused the dust particles instead of you guys.

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  3. people have really become mean, miser and full of pity, they only care for you if they think you can be of some benefit to them, once you are not of use they would simply ditch. and I have even noticed that the girls are better then boys now, at least they do care more than boys except for few phenotypic girls but they are rare. Boys are full of shit now.

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  4. Don't know much about it lol. But i think girls will tell the same story if. You ask them. May be people now behave good with opposite gender only lol. Or may be you came across a good girl. In my view situation is same here or there :)

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  5. well girls have same feelings for each other, every other girl is willing to be mean to every other in every sense of direction now, you are right that people now only care about the opposite gender. I got that during my clearance period ;)

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  6. Why do people care more about the opposite gender? Well, its like an animal instinct. The more a person is materialistic, the more he or she will care for the opposite gender as compared for the same gender. In reality the person is expecting something in return from the opposite gender, its not a true or pure compassion without any expectations. Its my theory, lets see how much it holds to be true. Share your own thoughts about it.

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  7. Your theory is true for a particular set of minds, it completely depends on the thinking and grooming of the person helping the other gender, what I have noticed is that there are 3 kind of minds...
    (1) first set of mind is of the people who just do it in the goodwill of human beings, they dont thinkits a male/female, they just do it
    (2) second are those who do it, unwillingly, only because they keep their feelings suppressed, they don't want to help or show affection but they do it. these people also dont hv any expectation in return
    (3) third is your type who do it solely for worldy means, they can be cheap or not depending on the extent the other gender opens up...

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  8. And what is the percentage of each set of mind that we see around us?

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Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Dedicated to my People and People Around me.


Sometimes, I just start wondering when ever alone, that till now in my life with how many people have I met. Some people just passed by and some people stayed for long with me.
But still, I am unable to recall the names of some people who stayed for long with me, and I can't even remember their faces. But there are some people which I still remember so well that it seems as if we have met yesterday. They are the people who left an impression of their own in my personality and I will carry their impression where ever I go. No matter how old I get, these are the people who will live inside my heart till I am living.

 Humans do not die when they leave this world and they keep on living in the personalities, hearts and thoughts of the people who carry their impression inside them. A person dies in true sense when they are forgotten. Like famous scientists, some died hundreds and thousands of years ago but they are still living in this world by the work they left behind, they are living in the books which we study today. So the people, who I remember, will keep on living in my thoughts till I am living.
Some people say that a person's family is the most important thing in one’s life, no doubt it is and family leaves the strongest image on a person, but still, every person have its own importance in the lives of people who are living around them. Like our relatives, friends, class fellows, teachers, neighbors and many other people, each of them play their role in our life, some play good role, some play bad role, both of them does leave an impression in our personalities and the way we think, and most of the time we remember the bad characters and forget the good characters. In my view it’s a bit unjust with the people who have contributed in a good way in our lives and we should remember them where ever we go. 

A person simply cannot live alone in this world, a person cannot say that he or she is capable of living totally alone in this world. We have to rely on different people in this world. One simply cannot bear the burden of everything by himself or herself. Those who try to bear the burdens all alone, simply break down and they fail in whatever they are doing. Before, due to some circumstances I became a strong advocate of the idea that a person should live his life alone, without relying on anyone, it was not that I was paranoid or something, the reason was that it’s simply very difficult to find people on whom you can rely on these days. In my view, that person is very lucky who come across such good people during their life who are trustworthy enough to be relied on.

Now, when I look back at my life, I consider myself very lucky and before I was just being unthankful when I was remembering the bad characters in my life, more than the good ones. Though it’s human nature to remember bad things more than the good ones, and there are more bad people around than the good ones, but I have seen and felt that one good person in life is enough to counteract the effect of one hundred bad people around you. And I am lucky enough to have more than one good people around me beside my family on whom I can rely on. They know who they are, I still remember them in my prayers no matter they are around me or not and I hope they would also be remembering me in their prayers.
 

8 comments:

  1. Ameen! may God bless us all with all the happiness of life and always guide us to the path of righteousness and help us make good, helpful and sincere friends.
    BTW the mid one seems to be photoshopped lol and pretty sentimental post, loved it... :)

    ReplyDelete
  2. Pic is not shopped, in f9 park, camera focused the dust particles instead of you guys.

    ReplyDelete
  3. people have really become mean, miser and full of pity, they only care for you if they think you can be of some benefit to them, once you are not of use they would simply ditch. and I have even noticed that the girls are better then boys now, at least they do care more than boys except for few phenotypic girls but they are rare. Boys are full of shit now.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Don't know much about it lol. But i think girls will tell the same story if. You ask them. May be people now behave good with opposite gender only lol. Or may be you came across a good girl. In my view situation is same here or there :)

    ReplyDelete
  5. well girls have same feelings for each other, every other girl is willing to be mean to every other in every sense of direction now, you are right that people now only care about the opposite gender. I got that during my clearance period ;)

    ReplyDelete
  6. Why do people care more about the opposite gender? Well, its like an animal instinct. The more a person is materialistic, the more he or she will care for the opposite gender as compared for the same gender. In reality the person is expecting something in return from the opposite gender, its not a true or pure compassion without any expectations. Its my theory, lets see how much it holds to be true. Share your own thoughts about it.

    ReplyDelete
  7. Your theory is true for a particular set of minds, it completely depends on the thinking and grooming of the person helping the other gender, what I have noticed is that there are 3 kind of minds...
    (1) first set of mind is of the people who just do it in the goodwill of human beings, they dont thinkits a male/female, they just do it
    (2) second are those who do it, unwillingly, only because they keep their feelings suppressed, they don't want to help or show affection but they do it. these people also dont hv any expectation in return
    (3) third is your type who do it solely for worldy means, they can be cheap or not depending on the extent the other gender opens up...

    ReplyDelete
  8. And what is the percentage of each set of mind that we see around us?

    ReplyDelete